I think perhaps the confusion could simply be a misunderstanding of word definition. We often think of being tempted as meaning that we have a weakness in that area, but that is not the true definition. The first definition of tempt in the Websters dictionary is: to entice to do wrong by promise of pleasure or gain. A temptation is initiated by the tempter. It is a temptation regardless of whether or not the person being tempted has a proclivity toward, or weakness in this area.
I think perhaps the confusion could simply be a misunderstanding of word definition. We often think of being tempted as meaning that we have a weakness in that area, but that is not the true definition. The first definition of tempt in the Websters dictionary is: to entice to do wrong by promise of pleasure or gain. A temptation is initiated by the tempter. It is a temptation regardless of whether or not the person being tempted has a proclivity toward, or weakness in this area.