Submitted by Tommyand Susie on November 21, 2009 - 7:26pm.
Lori, you stated that you did not get saved until after you were married so you are not in any sin now since you have come to the Lord and your husband has not, even if you had been saved before we all make mistakes, 1Cor 7:12-20 tells us that if the unsaved is willing to remain in the marriage then we should not worry that we are in sin it would be worse if we left them, however if -they- wish to leave then you would not be in sin then either, so you are ok to stay, there is no condemnation in your relationship. it will be difficult as it is with any marriage but if you keep your focus on Christ and walk with Him He will give you the strength to make it through and hopefully see your husband come to Christ, just remember that it is Christ in you working through you that will bring him to Christ, not by you trying to make his salvation happen you live for the Lord and keep your focus on Christ.
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Lori, you stated that you did not get saved until after you were married so you are not in any sin now since you have come to the Lord and your husband has not, even if you had been saved before we all make mistakes, 1Cor 7:12-20 tells us that if the unsaved is willing to remain in the marriage then we should not worry that we are in sin it would be worse if we left them, however if -they- wish to leave then you would not be in sin then either, so you are ok to stay, there is no condemnation in your relationship. it will be difficult as it is with any marriage but if you keep your focus on Christ and walk with Him He will give you the strength to make it through and hopefully see your husband come to Christ, just remember that it is Christ in you working through you that will bring him to Christ, not by you trying to make his salvation happen you live for the Lord and keep your focus on Christ.
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